Godly mentorship is the idea of leading someone closer to Christ by your lifestyle whether intentionally or unintentionally. Being a mentor is being a representative. The Bible calls this kind of person an ambassador for Christ ( 2 Corinthians 5:20). The mission that this ambassador has is reconciliation of others to God. The way this person lives, acts, speaks and what they do are allowing people to be drawn closer to or further away from the Lord.
Mentoring can be done on purpose by engaging others around you and encouraging them to follow Jesus. Many times there are opportunities in church or discipleship groups. Mentoring can also be done on purpose in one-on-one relationships, or couple to couple like we have experienced.
Mentoring is also done unintentionally. People watch how you live, how you interact and how you respond to difficult situations. Children watch their parents who are oftentimes unaware of how their behavior is being scrutinized and copied. Those in leadership or with platforms very often influence those who are following them as well.
Your marriage is mentoring other marriages!
What you say and do makes a difference. Who you watch and listen to is influencing you as well. Godly mentors have Godly mentees. Godly couples follow other Godly couples. You will always reap what you sow. Always. So if you want to have a great impact on others around you for Christ, you have to be that kind of example. If you want to grow in Godliness, you need people who follow Christ to look up to. If you want a strong marriage, watch strong marriages. It works both ways.
The most important thing to remember about Godly mentorship is that Jesus is the best mentor for all of us. Follow Him. Strive to live like Him. Emulate His example and obey Him just like He obeyed His Father in heaven.
