Walking Together Towards God

Marriage is one of life’s greatest blessings, but it’s no secret that it can also be one of life’s greatest challenges. For many couples, there comes a moment when keeping the fire kindled feels almost impossible. The weight of misunderstandings, unmet expectations, and life’s trials can make it tempting to let go. Yet, the beauty of marriage lies in its design by God—a covenant, not a contract. The Bible reminds us in Ecclesiastes 4:12 (KJV) , “And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” A marriage centered on God becomes that unbreakable cord. Even when the journey gets tough, encouraging one another daily can reignite love, respect, and hope. Here at Walking Together Towards God, we acknowledge the difficulty of ending a marriage and the pain it brings, not just to the couple but to families and communities. While we can’t save every relationship, we will minister to those God sends our way. If you’re reading this, we belie...

Thanksgiving is a time when families gather to express gratitude for the blessings of life, but the spirit of Thanksgiving shouldn’t be limited to one day. As believers, we are called to live with gratitude in our hearts daily (1 Thessalonians 5:18). One of the most meaningful ways to practice this is by giving thanks for your spouse—not just in November, but all year long. Marriage is a gift from God, a union that reflects His covenantal love for His people (Ephesians 5:25-33). When we view our spouse through this lens, we can see them as God’s provision and blessing in our lives. Whether your relationship is flourishing or you’re in a season of challenge, expressing gratitude for your spouse can transform your marriage. Proverbs 18:22 reminds us, “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.” This truth extends to both husbands and wives. By acknowledging your spouse as a “good thing” and a sign of God’s favor, you invite joy and gratitude into your ...

This October, Maurice and I decided to shake things up with a seafood date night. If you’d been there, you’d have seen us both cracking crab legs, bibs on, hands messy, eyes locked over a mountain of crustaceans. It was all very romantic—and a little hilarious. There we were, pinching and cracking away, determined to get every last bit of crab meat. It was an evening filled with laughter, a little bit of shell splatter, and a reminder of why dates are so important for keeping our love fresh. As it says in *Song of Solomon 4:10,* “How fair is thy love, my sister, my spouse! how much better is thy love than wine!” (Or in this case, better than crab legs!) But this got me thinking: like seafood, marriage requires attention, seasoning, and a little spice to stay fresh. If you don’t keep stirring the pot, you risk letting things go cold. In *Matthew 24:12,* we’re warned that “because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.” Isn’t it true in marriage, too? We must intentional...

In September, Maurice and I had the joy of taking our two teenage sons on their first-ever plane ride! Watching their excitement as we boarded was a memory I’ll hold close. They couldn’t stop looking out the windows and snapping pictures as the plane lifted off. Seeing them experience this for the first time reminded us of God’s simple blessings, and it truly set the tone for our trip. Atlanta welcomed us with so many things to see and do. Although we had a big list of places we wanted to explore, God had other plans. We didn’t make it everywhere on our list, but in every moment, we felt God nudging us to just *be together.* From enjoying meals to laughing over shared stories and seeing the sights we could, our time was filled with joy and gratitude. As parents, we often focus on planning and perfecting every detail, but this trip reminded us that quality time together is what truly matters. God used this trip to remind us to cherish each other, even in the simplest moments. We’re so g...

Some guys profess their love with flowers, but not my Maurice! This summer, I experienced a surprise that will stay with me forever. It was a hot, sunny day, the kind that makes you dream of poolside lounging and cool breezes, but my husband had something else up his sleeve. Out of nowhere, he called me outside. He had a surprise. I had no idea what to expect—a cute summer dress, maybe? A dinner reservation? But when I stepped out, I couldn't believe my eyes. There, gleaming under the sun, was a brand-new, fire-engine-red Chevy Blazer! To say I was shocked would be an understatement. This was the car I’d admired for so long, always drawn to its sleek design and sporty look. The red color was perfect for summer, bold and vibrant, and the Blazer itself just screamed adventure. It was as if he had brought a bit of the summer sun down to earth just for me. And let me tell you, the first time I slid behind the wheel, I felt like a million bucks. Now, every time I hit the road in that go...

Praise God! When I was a little tike, of about five years of age (1975). I guess I thought I was some kind of explorer or zoologist or something, because I used to go around searching for Moby Dick (the fictional whale). I can't remember hearing the story, and I know I didn't read the long novel. But I was obsessed with finding this creature. Which is kind of embarrassing when I think back on it. Somehow I got the idea that Moby Dick lived down in the sewer system, under the manhole covers. One summer day a friend and I, with our big afro's and bell-bottom pants, were playing at my house. My mother (RIP 1/8/50- 5/19/86) decided to take me and my friend with her so she could see her friend, who lived in another part of the hood. When we got there we sat on the front porch. The nice lady offered my friend and I some watermelon. After eating that, my friend and I went around to the back of the house, as my mother and her friend sat on the front porch talking. While...

We have been silent on this blog. We have been quietly holding each other up. This is why. Just a few years into our marriage, we lost Maurice's dad and on February 23rd my dad passed from earth to eternity. Some would say that we are now fatherless, but we beg to differ. My father - Arnold Lee Harden gave his life to Jesus Christ as a teenager and served in his local church. He then married, had three girls and became a deacon in his latter years. We know that life begins when we receive Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior, so my dad is living his BEST life right now! I got that full revelation on Easter Sunday weekend. I was tempted to deeply mourn during the holidays, but then, I remembered that this year was my dad's first Easter with Jesus Himself - how glorious! All couples deal with death differently. When your spouse is hurting, how do you support them? Here are a few things that Maurice did for me. Letting Me Cry I do not think I have ever cried so much on my life. I c...

  Men and Women are different. We communicate differently. Some of us are talkers, others are better at listening. We actually comprehend on various levels that depend on our cirucumstances, mood and history with the person with which we are speaking. Even the words that we are using may have shades of meaning that we did not even intend. Communication is both sharing and understanding. When couples both seek to come to a mutual understanding that is the best starting point. Our goal may be to resolve a conflict or make a decision. Once we share our heart with each other, the next step is being able to completely comprehend your partner's position as well. Here are ten ways for couples to improve communication and increase understanding quickly. - Pray together every day. This will help you align your hearts and minds with God's will and purpose for your marriage. "For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them." (Matthew 18:20) This may be a new commi...