Kindling the FIRE of Marriage: Being Covenant Keepers



Marriage is one of life’s greatest blessings, but it’s no secret that it can also be one of life’s greatest challenges. For many couples, there comes a moment when keeping the fire kindled feels almost impossible. The weight of misunderstandings, unmet expectations, and life’s trials can make it tempting to let go. Yet, the beauty of marriage lies in its design by God—a covenant, not a contract.

The Bible reminds us in Ecclesiastes 4:12 (KJV), “And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” A marriage centered on God becomes that unbreakable cord. Even when the journey gets tough, encouraging one another daily can reignite love, respect, and hope.

Here at Walking Together Towards God, we acknowledge the difficulty of ending a marriage and the pain it brings, not just to the couple but to families and communities. While we can’t save every relationship, we will minister to those God sends our way. If you’re reading this, we believe you’re here for a purpose.

To married couples, we urge you: be each other’s greatest encourager, year after year. Share a kind word, pray together, and commit to forgiving often. To those around married couples, be a light of hope and love. Cheer on the relationships in your circle. Your words and actions could be the spark that reignites a dying flame.

As we close this year, we invite wives to watch and listen to this podcast to find encouragement and support. Our theme for next year will be “Covenant,” as we focus on the sacred promise of marriage.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! May God bless your marriage and every relationship you’re called to nurture in 2024. Let’s walk together, stronger than ever, toward God’s design for covenant love.

 

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