Giving Thanks for Your Spouse: Celebrating Thanksgiving All Year Long


Thanksgiving is a time when families gather to express gratitude for the blessings of life, but the spirit of Thanksgiving shouldn’t be limited to one day. As believers, we are called to live with gratitude in our hearts daily (1 Thessalonians 5:18). One of the most meaningful ways to practice this is by giving thanks for your spouse—not just in November, but all year long.

Marriage is a gift from God, a union that reflects His covenantal love for His people (Ephesians 5:25-33). When we view our spouse through this lens, we can see them as God’s provision and blessing in our lives. Whether your relationship is flourishing or you’re in a season of challenge, expressing gratitude for your spouse can transform your marriage.

Proverbs 18:22 reminds us, “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.” This truth extends to both husbands and wives. By acknowledging your spouse as a “good thing” and a sign of God’s favor, you invite joy and gratitude into your relationship.

Here are ways to keep the Thanksgiving spirit alive in your marriage:

  1. Pray for Your Spouse Daily: Thank God for their strengths, pray over their struggles, and seek ways to support them.
  2. Speak Words of Affirmation: Verbalize your appreciation regularly. Simple words like “thank you for working so hard” or “I’m grateful for how you care for our family” go a long way.
  3. Celebrate Small Moments: Cook a favorite meal, share a heartfelt note, or set aside time to reminisce about God’s faithfulness in your relationship.

In Colossians 3:14-15, Paul urges us to “put on love” and “let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.” Gratitude fosters peace, unity, and love in marriage. As you practice Thanksgiving throughout the year, you’ll find your relationship strengthened and your home filled with God’s joy.

Let’s celebrate our spouses and thank God for the beautiful gift of marriage every day!

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