Spring into Marriage!

Spring is a time of renewal and growth, and it can also be a time to refresh your marriage. After many years together (like us), you and your spouse may have fallen into a routine that feels dull and boring. But you can spice things up by trying some new things and reconnecting with each other on a deeper level. Here are some ideas to freshen up your marriage in the season of spring:

Go on a picnic. Pack some sandwiches, fruits, and drinks, and head to a nearby park or garden. Enjoy the fresh air and the beauty of nature. You can also bring a blanket and cuddle under the sun. Talk about your dreams, your hopes, and your feelings. Remember why you fell in love in the first place. We love picnics, parks, trails and the great outdoors.

Read the Song of Solomon together. This book of the Bible is full of passionate and poetic expressions of love between a husband and a wife. It celebrates the intimacy and joy of marriage. You can read it aloud to each other, or take turns reading a verse and explaining what it means to you. You can also use it as inspiration to write your own love letters or poems to each other. Confession: we have never written love letters to each other!

Do something adventurous. Step out of your comfort zone and try something new together. It could be something as simple as taking a dance class or learning a new skill, or something as daring as skydiving or bungee jumping. Whatever it is, make sure it is something that both of you are interested in and excited about. Doing something adventurous will boost your adrenaline AND your attraction to each other.

Pray together. Prayer is one of the most powerful ways to strengthen your marriage. It helps you to align your hearts and minds with God's will and purpose for your relationship. It also helps you to express your gratitude, your needs, and your requests to God. Pray together every day, even if it is just for a few minutes. Thank God for your spouse and for your marriage. Ask Him to bless you, guide you, and protect you. Pray for each other's needs and challenges. Pray for wisdom, understanding, and patience. It builds great intimacy.


These are just some ideas to freshen up your marriage in the season of spring. You can also come up with your own ideas that suit your personality and preferences. The important thing is to make time for each other, to communicate openly and honestly, and to show love and respect to each other. Remember that marriage is a gift from God, and He wants you to enjoy it and cherish it.

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