Gift-Giving Guide for Christian Couples

Buying gifts for your spouse can be a really fun experience if you know them well. As the holiday season approaches we are all preparing to buy gifts for many people. We have experienced times when gift-giving has been hectic and other times when it has been a joy.

Here are a few tips before we offer you a few of the best deals out there for couples right now.

(This post does contain affiliate links that we may be compensated for if you click them - so we don't mind at all)

1.  Pay attention. Know your spouse well. I know this goes without saying, but when buying gifts you want to take note of what your spouse really loves and what they really do not.

Notice when they smile, when they linger over certain items in the store or make comments. Be a detective and take note!

I really do not like chocolate much, but Maurice used to buy me chocolate all of the time. Once I purchase a men's devotional for Maurice but then realize later that it merely collected dust. These were not good gift choices for us obviously!

2. Be wise.  It is so important that you are on the same page financially with your spouse. Buying gifts can be a pleasure but it can also be a detriment to your finances.

You may need to discipline yourself to save money for a special item, but giving with heart is so much sweeter!

A husband may want to "surprise" the wife with a $5,000 upgrade on her wedding ring which would be very nice, but you could be really surprised that you are still paying for that gift 5 to 20 years later!

One is usually the spender and the other the saver. Plan accordingly. See this post for more on managing your money as a couple.

3.  Ask the Lord for help. As cheesy as that may sound Maurice and I have learned to put God in the center of everything!

God knows your spouse better than you do right? He can direct you. Give gifts that make your spouse better, not harm them. We should never give gifts that will indulge sinful habits or addiction.

Not all gifts are tangible, especially for married couples (as you know)!  your spouse may prefer an experience of sorts rather than a gift that comes in a box.  Get creative with the Creator!

NOW... We have come up with a  few ideas for gifts for engaged or married couples.  It does seem to be getting harder and harder to find things that christian couples can both enjoy, so we have scoured the internet for you and found some amazing deals!

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ChurchSource.com

 A website for christian books and gifts.

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Find your spouse a bible, christian T-shirts, mugs, decals and MORE.


We hope that this is helpful to you and your spouse. Wishing you a very Happy ThanksGIVING!!


Comments

  1. JasmineNovember 19, 2018 at 5:11 AM

    we aren't a religious couple. but i will forward this to a few friends

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    1. Walking TogetherNovember 19, 2018 at 6:12 AM

      We appreciate your sharing!! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving and Christmas holiday 😍

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  2. candyNovember 25, 2018 at 4:51 PM

    We should always watch and listen to what our spouse desires. Yes there is three of us in our marriage

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    1. Walking TogetherNovember 25, 2018 at 4:57 PM

      Yes!! Do unto others as you would have them do unto you right? The Golden Rule applies to marriage too. Thanks so much for reading!

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  3. Blair VillanuevaNovember 27, 2018 at 12:41 AM

    A vacation for the couple is always a good gift, doesn't need to be too grand. A sleepover in a hotel in the city would be nice as well.

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    1. Walking TogetherNovember 27, 2018 at 9:11 AM

      What a great idea!! Sometimes trips as gifts make the best memories hands-down. Taking mental notes. Thanks for reading ✔

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  4. UnknownNovember 27, 2018 at 9:50 AM

    Yes, I love the creative tip, think outside of the box

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    1. Walking TogetherNovember 27, 2018 at 11:54 AM

      Yes!! Taking careful thought to how you give is such a special and loving thing to do.

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  5. AnonymousNovember 27, 2018 at 7:18 PM

    Great ideas! I am going to share with this with my couple friends.

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    1. Walking TogetherNovember 28, 2018 at 4:11 AM

      Thanks so much for sharing!! We hope it is a great resource for the holidays!

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  6. Eliz FrankDecember 3, 2018 at 1:57 AM

    These are solid tips that we could all use when it's time to shop for gifts. The holidays are a frenzied time and using wisdom is important.

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    1. Walking TogetherDecember 3, 2018 at 5:53 PM

      We are glad that you like them. Wisdom is key. Thanks for reading!

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